Sunday morning party

Work last night was good. I think I'm starting to adjust to overnights. I wasn't too tired when I got off work and it was an easy night. 

I spent most of the morning out on the patio with Ingrid, Kaden and a few neighbors. We had a great morning while enjoying one another's company over some dress brewed coffee. John and Bob spent some time interacting with Kaden.

It was a fabulous morning with friends, family and a fresh breeze. 

The hours passed quickly and before I knew it, it was 1130. I had to stop playing around, get in the house to eat some breakfast before getting some shut eye. 

Ingrid made one of my favorite breakfast meals. Bacon and eggs. I know, typical guy. So deliciously filling. After that it was straight to the bed for some sleep. 

My alarm went off around 5p. The house smelled like fresh baked cookies. Yup you got it, Ingrid made some cookies. It was a new recipe. They were pretty delicious. You're welcome to follow her blog at OnTheHip...Side for details into the recipes she uses. I don't want to steal her doings. 

I was fairly lazy upon waking though. Ingrid, Kaden and I just relaxed in the bedroom talking and playing until 545. Finally I was ready to go. Grabbed my coffee and kissed my loved ones goodbye for the evening as I headed out the door. 

Until I'm done in the morning and can return home to the ones that make me smile. 

Sleepless in Kansas

It's been a few days since my last post. For those of you joining, my job schedule has recently been changed and I'm now working night shift. My body has not been handling that too well. Most days have been getting home from work at 8a and going to bed shortly thereafter. Sleeping until 3-4p before spending a few hours with Ingrid and Kaden before leaving again or work at 6p. Luckily Rylan and Lilly are with their mother this week which is giving me time to adjust before they're back with us. 

I had Friday night off work so that morning Ingrid asked me to go swimming with her and Kaden. I elected to go with them over sleeping. The morning stated out fine. We did some grocery shopping and them went to the pool. My intentions were to take a nap there but all I did was sweat. It was way too hot for me to sleep comfortably. After that we preceded home. Finally I could take a nap at 530p. I was tired. Ingrid made some fish for dinner and it was delicious. After dinner, I could barely keep my eyes open and decided to turn in for the night. 

Today was fairly unproductive. I slept in until 930, was up for a few hours and took another nap. Ingrid was going to a bridal shower so that left the house nice and quiet. I've just been so tired during this transition. Off to work again for a 12 hr overnight shift. Can't wait to see what in store for my night. 

Anniversary

June 19th was our anniversary. Usually I am pretty original and on the ball when it comes to gifts and dates etc etc. this year however I really dropped the ball. So I was just exhausted this morning when I got home. I knew I'd forgot to do something. Maybe because I was drained. As soon as I walked in the door she wished me happy anniversary and the only thing I had to say was sh*t.  

Ingrid was the creative original one this year. She's made this awesome photo book with pictures throughout the past year. It was pretty neat. I loved it. You can check it out at the link below. I'm not the best with computer stuff so if it doesn't work I'm sorry

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I was going to get Ingrid photo shop so she would be able to edit and print whatever photos she wants too for scrap books, pic frames etc. As stated earlier, I just completely forgot. Ingrid didn't seem to mind too much but that's still no excuse to forget an anniversary gift and miss an opportunity to make her feel that she's loved. 

After sleeping until 5ish I woke up and Ingrid had made beef stroganoff for dinner. While making small talk she was also excited that she gotten a lot done around the house today.  God love her. I'm such a lucky person the be blessed with her in my life. 

I left for work around 6p and I must say, working during the days is much easier on the family life. 

Happy anniversary Ingrid. Thank you for being you. I happily await spending many years of joy and happiness with you. For ever and ever I love you. 

The day after

Last night was my first time working overnights in a long long time. The night at work started out alright and made a gradual downhill turn. It ended up being an alright night but wow am I exhausted. With not too much sleep yesterday, I'm ready for bed at 830a. Pretty pathetic I know.  Apparently Kaden had a diaper blowout last night in the bed too but I was so tired, frankly I didn't care. I was going to bed. 

As much as society tells me drinking in the morning isn't acceptable, it's really tasting good at this time of day. I mean after working all night not necessarily 830 in the morning lol. 

My arm has been bothering me lately and I really should go to the doctor but I'm kind of thinking about saving that feat for another day. Maybe later this week once my body adjusts to the new schedule. 

Ingrid had some fresh coffee made when I got home this morning which was very thoughtful. I guess it could have been just for her. After drinking coffee all night I really wasn't in the mood. I could tell that she's already done some dishes and started laundry. Super woman I tell you. She's just amazing. 

Time to sign out as I'm dozing off while typing. Just another episode of daddies day where everything is a daze where I continue to prioritize what I can procrastinate on until tomorrow and then repeat until it gets done.  

A case of the moooooondays

This morning was rainy and gloomy when we woke up. I'm dreading the transition from day shift to night shift.  We pretty much did nothing productive until 11a or so. Our morning consisted of watching cartoons, playing with Legos and playing on the WII. Around 11 I finally got the kids in the bath while Ingrid made some lunch for us before taking the kids to their  moms around noon. 

After dropping Rylan and Lilly off, I made an attempt to get some sleep in preparation for working night shift. Although not 100% sure, I'm pretty sure I don't sleep more than 45 mins to an hr with all the tossing and turning I did. 

Having to be to work at 7, I'm up now at 540. Going to get ready for work, grab a quick bite to eat and will be on the road by 600. 

Father's Day

Yesterday was Lilly's birthday party. For all the parents out there, you understand all the time and energy it takes for a child's party. Everything went good. A lite rainstorm rolled in about cake time but all in all it was a good time. 

Come 7 last night we were all exhausted. Rylan & Lilly were ready for bed around 745 so I attempted to put them to bed while falling asleep in Rylan's room. Ingrid woke me up at 1100p and I migrated to our bed. 

Morning came quick with the alarm clock ringing at 4a. I was dreading starting the day that early but I had to get the smoker fired up and get to cooking. What a more enjoyable way to wake up on Father's Day. It was enjoyable sitting on the patio that early in the morning. Cool, calm, quiet and very relaxing. So I shouldn't complain too much.  I did also take a nap from 530-630 until the kids woke up. 

Once we were finished eating breakfast, out came the new toys. From Legos, puzzles to making bead jewelry. 

Entertaining the kids while going in and out to keep an eye on the smoker. Yummy it's looking so good.  I know, I know, the back yard is a mess. 

Finally the kids decided to be independent which gave Ingrid and I some time to relax outside and have a few cups of coffee with our neighbors Bob and James. Vey nice people and we enjoy the conversation. 

Finally around 1015, I wrapped the ribs. In aluminum foil for the final couple hours until their done. All that's needed now is time and Father's Day dinner will be complete. 

It's now 1140 and Ingrid's dad and step mom should be here any minutes. I've already gone to the store and swept the patio. Ingrid is taking care of inside the house (God I love her). I'm debating about taking a shower and changing clothes. Looking a little trashy right now. Na it Father's Day I'll where what I want. 

Finally Saturday

Today is the day we're celebrating Lilly's birthday. With still a lot to do, I knew it was going to be an early morning. Rylan and Lilly were up around 630 - 700 and that was about the time I decided myself to roll out of bed. Ingrid and Kaden were still resting in bed so in an attempt to keep quiet, we had some juice and pop tarts for breakfast. 

After watching a few episodes of Mickey Mouse clubhouse, I knew I had to get going or I'd never get everything done. 

First things first, prep a couple slabs of ribs for Father's Day tomorrow. 

One slab is sweet and the other is spicy and it really made the house smell good and I was tempted to cook them for the party today :-)  YUMMY

After the ribs it was off to the garage to clean up a little before heading outdoors to mow the yard. Today's mowing was a little extra as I decided to mow my neighbor Bob's yard also as he recovers from a foot injury.  After an hour of mowing, that was complete and it was off to the patio for a short break before heading to the store for a few last minute party items for Ingrid. 

After returning home, time was running short and still I needed a shower, had o wake the kids up and give them a bath also prior to our guest arriving. And don't forget the to fill up all the water balloons. 

My shower turned into a quick wash down. The kids bath turned into a sponge bath. All while entertaining the kids so Ingrid could decorate the cake. 

It turned out awesome. She's so wonderful and talented. I'm blessed to have such an amazing woman in my life. 

While she's taking a shower I'm trying to relax for just a few minutes before the chaos begins  

My first blog

So today I've decided to start a blog. A little bit about me first. I have a full time job that can sometimes be mentally stressful. I have 3 children, Rylan age 5, Lilly age 4 & Kaden is 15 weeks. Rylan & Lilly are able to spend half their time with their mother and the other half with me. I live with my girlfriend Ingrid (who is everything one could ever ask in a woman and truly the love of my life ) and out son Kaden. She has decided to be a home maker which I think is awesome. This blog is a just a view into a fathers daily life while juggling all the responsibilities of work, family, financials with one income and all the curveballs that come with daily life. 

So my day started at 530a with the alarm  clock waking me up. Off to work I was shortly thereafter.  I've spent this week working out of town and I was extremely thrilled to get home Thursday night and be back at the office Friday morning but I survived. The day at work was difficult due to several issues. The whole day, my mind was focused on Saturdays birthday party for Lilly. Finally 7pm rolls around and I'm getting excited to see Rylan and Lilly for the first time this week. Before I can pick them up, I had to stop by the store for some grilling supplies in preparation for some Father's Day BBQ. 

Once I got the their mom's, I spent a few minutes talking before it was off to the house. By this time it's 830p. Definitely beer thirty. 

It was fabulous to see Ingrid and Kaden and for the first time this summer it was nice and cool in the house. Ingrid had finally turned on the ac. 

After spending some time playing outside with everyone, I could tell Rylan and Lilly were getting tired. Off to bed it was. That's when the fun started. Although tired and ready for bed, it was time to tackle the bills and enjoy a meal. All while thinking "I have to go to bed so I'm rested for Lilly's party tomorrow"  Finally I'd completed the necessities of my to do list and it was my time to have a drink while enjoying the cool quiet evening on the patio. Which is what I'm in the middle of right now. 

Tonight could bring several more adventures which we'll be covering in tomorrow's run down of daddy's days.